I was a co-dependant person for a long time. Being lonely made me make alot of bad decisions and those decisions hurt alot of people I care about to this very day. It is like being an alcholic from what I read. I had to hit rock bottom and come up from that. Now, I am in a place where I am alone without being lonely and it gets easier everyday. What did it for me was realizing that my co-dependace was hurting the people that were closest to me and that I loved most of all. That made it alot easier to be alone. You don't want to get so un-attached that you are thinking about doing the 12 gauge taste test... but enjoy what you can, alone then add to it with friends, or even dates.
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I was a co-dependant person for a long time. Being lonely made me make alot of bad decisions and those decisions hurt alot of people I care about to this very day. It is like being an alcholic from what I read. I had to hit rock bottom and come up from that. Now, I am in a place where I am alone without being lonely and it gets easier everyday. What did it for me was realizing that my co-dependace was hurting the people that were closest to me and that I loved most of all. That made it alot easier to be alone. You don't want to get so un-attached that you are thinking about doing the 12 gauge taste test... but enjoy what you can, alone then add to it with friends, or even dates.
Your friend... the Voice of Reason.
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